Empowering Co-Parents: Building Legacies Through Collaborative Parenting

In any kind of parenthood, there lies an inherent desire to leave behind a legacy of love, resilience, and harmony for our children and generations to come. True leadership, as the renowned quote goes, isn’t merely about making the next move—it’s about laying the groundwork for a future that transcends time, shaping the lives of our loved ones long after we’re gone.

As co-parents, this sentiment holds particularly true. The journey of collaborative parenting isn’t just about navigating the present; it’s about building a legacy that will guide our children through life’s twists and turns, ensuring they emerge as resilient, empathetic individuals ready to make their mark on the world.

Food for thought

Take a moment to reflect on your co-parenting journey. How do you envision the legacy you’re building for your children? What values and principles do you hope to instill in them through your collaborative efforts?

Nurturing Resilience Through Structured Co-Parenting

Structured co-parenting serves as the cornerstone of building a lasting legacy for our children. By establishing clear boundaries, routines, and communication channels, co-parents create a stable foundation upon which their children can thrive. From consistent schedules to shared decision-making, every aspect of structured co-parenting contributes to nurturing resilience and fostering a sense of security in children’s lives.

Tip: Utilize tools such as shared calendars and co-parenting apps to streamline communication and keep everyone on the same page. Consistency in scheduling and decision-making helps reinforce stability and predictability for your children.

Food for thought

How does the structure in your co-parenting plan contribute to the stability and well-being of your children? In what ways can you further enhance the structure to better support their growth and development?

Embracing Flexibility: Adapting to Change with Grace

While structure provides a solid framework for co-parenting, flexibility allows us to navigate the inevitable challenges of life with grace and resilience. As co-parents, it’s essential to strike a balance between structure and flexibility, allowing room for adaptation to changing circumstances while maintaining consistency for the benefit of our children.

Tip: Schedule regular check-ins with your co-parent to discuss any changes or adjustments needed in your co-parenting plan. Being open to compromise and finding creative solutions together fosters a sense of collaboration and cooperation.

Food for thought

Think about a recent challenge or change in your co-parenting arrangement. How did you and your co-parent navigate it together? What lessons did you learn about the importance of flexibility in maintaining a harmonious co-parenting relationship?

Your Path to Transformative Co-Parenting Support

At Tara Mediation, we understand the complexities and challenges of co-parenting firsthand. For over a decade, we’ve served as a guiding light for countless co-parents, offering transformative mediation and coordination services designed to empower families and build enduring legacies of love and unity.

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If you’re ready to embark on a journey of transformative co-parenting support, contact us today at Tara Mediation. Let us be your North Star, guiding you towards a future where your co-parenting legacy shines bright for generations to come.

In any design of parenthood, every line we create contributes to the legacy we leave behind. With structured co-parenting, resilience, and a commitment to collaboration, we can shape a future where our children thrive and our legacies endure. Let Tara Mediation be your partner on this transformative journey.

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Experience co-parenting characterized by transformative growth and harmony. As a seasoned transformative and narrative mediator and co-parenting coordinator with more than a decade of expertise, I specialize in guiding individuals through the complex journey of ‘From Closure to Connection’. If you are facing challenges during your co-parenting journey and are looking for a professional ally to light the path to renewal and positive transformation, I am here to offer you my dedicated help. Let’s work together to ensure that your co-parenting relationship not only continues, but can flourish too. Contact me and let’s begin a new chapter of connection, growth and shared joy in co-parenting.

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Sunita Changoe is the owner of Tara Mediation. Tara Mediation guides couple who are considering a divorce or separation, couples who have decided to divorce and already divorced individuals. For these individuals Tara Mediation provides the workshop ‘Claim your spot! – from partner to single’. More information www.taramediation.com

For more information about Tara Mediation, interview requests or images you can contact Sunita Changoe by phone: +31 (0)6 8100 6515 or e-mail: su.changoe@taramediation.com Also visit the website: www.taramediation.com

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Flexibility within Structure: Balancing the need for structure with the flexibility required to adapt to changing circumstances in co-parenting.

“As a mediator and a co-parenting coordinator, Ms Sunita Changoe played a pivotal role in transforming our co-parenting dynamic from one of tension and conflict to one of collaboration and understanding. Her unique approach to balancing structure with flexibility has truly improved our lives as co-parents.’ – M. & A.

When these co-parents first came to me for mediation and guidance, they had been locked in a constant battle over the custody and visitation schedule of their two children for more than a year since they separated. Their inability to find common ground led to frequent disagreements and strained relationships with their children.

Through careful mediation sessions, I helped these co-parents recognize the importance of establishing a structured co-parenting plan while also allowing room for flexibility to adapt to changing circumstances. We worked together to create a detailed schedule that outlined each parent’s responsibilities while also incorporating provisions for adjustments when needed.

As a result of their willingness to work together with my guidance, these co-parents have experienced a significant improvement in their co-parenting relationship. They now communicate more effectively, collaborate on decision-making, and are better equipped to handle unexpected challenges that arise. Most importantly, their children are thriving in an environment of stability and consistency, knowing that their parents are working together for their best interests.

I am proud to have played a part in helping them find a balance between structure and flexibility in their co-parenting journey, ultimately leading to a happier and healthier family dynamic.

Ready for your structured co-parenting

Experience co-parenting characterized by transformative growth and harmony. As a seasoned transformative and narrative mediator and co-parenting coordinator with more than a decade of expertise, I specialize in guiding individuals through the complex journey of ‘From Closure to Connection’. If you are facing challenges during your co-parenting journey and are looking for a professional ally to light the path to renewal and positive transformation, I am here to offer you my dedicated help. Let’s work together to ensure that your co-parenting relationship not only continues, but can flourish too. Contact me and let’s begin a new chapter of connection, growth and shared joy in co-parenting.

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Embark on a transformative journey with Tara Mediation Co-parenting Edition! Join us as we unravel the complexities, offering insights that will empower you to navigate this unique journey with resilience and grace. Your co-parenting story is unique, and so are the strategies to make it thrive. Tune in now for a dose of wisdom, guidance, and a sprinkle of inspiration.

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Tara Mediation’s Co-parenting Edition brings you a new episode every Thursday. Available on Spotify and Apple Podcasts.

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About Sunita Changoe
Sunita Changoe is the owner of Tara Mediation. Tara Mediation guides couple who are considering a divorce or separation, couples who have decided to divorce and already divorced individuals. For these individuals Tara Mediation provides the workshop ‘Claim your spot! – from partner to single’. More information www.taramediation.com

For more information about Tara Mediation, interview requests or images you can contact Sunita Changoe by phone: +31 (0)6 8100 6515 or e-mail: su.changoe@taramediation.com Also visit the website: www.taramediation.com

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Financial Planning: How a structured co-parenting plan can help in effective financial planning for the child’s needs and expenses.

“Structured co-parenting lays the groundwork for a secure financial future, empowering children with the stability they need to thrive.” – Sunita Changoe

When navigating the complexities of co-parenting, one area that often requires careful consideration is financial planning for our children’s needs and expenses. I would like to share some practical tips on how a structured co-parenting plan can be a powerful tool in this endeavor, tips that have been of great value to many of the co-parents I have guided in their co-parenting journey.

1. Establish Clear Financial Responsibilities:  A well-structured co-parenting plan outlines each parent’s financial responsibilities, from basic necessities like housing and food to extracurricular activities and education expenses. By clearly defining who pays for what, parents can avoid misunderstandings and ensure that all aspects of the child’s financial needs are covered.

2. Create a Joint Budget:  Collaborate with your co-parent to create a comprehensive budget that accounts for all anticipated expenses related to your child’s upbringing. This includes not only day-to-day expenses but also savings for future needs such as college tuition or healthcare costs. By working together, you can ensure that your child’s financial future is secure.

3. Utilize Child Support Guidelines:  If applicable, utilize child support guidelines provided by your country to ensure that financial support is fair and equitable. These guidelines take into account factors such as each parent’s income, the child’s needs, and the standard of living the child would have enjoyed if the parents were together.

4. Plan for Contingencies:  Life is unpredictable, and unexpected expenses can arise at any time. Build flexibility into your co-parenting plan to account for unforeseen circumstances, such as medical emergencies or changes in income. Having a contingency plan in place will help alleviate financial stress and ensure that your child’s needs are always met.

5. Prioritize Communication and Transparency:  Effective communication is key to successful co-parenting, especially when it comes to financial matters. Keep lines of communication open with your co-parent and be transparent about your financial situation, including any changes in income or expenses. This will help foster trust and cooperation, ultimately benefiting your child’s financial well-being.

As you can see, a structured co-parenting plan can be a valuable tool in effective financial planning for your child’s needs and expenses. By establishing clear responsibilities, creating a joint budget, utilizing child support guidelines, planning for contingencies, and prioritizing communication and transparency, you can ensure that your child’s financial future is bright and secure.

Ready for your structured co-parenting

Experience co-parenting characterized by transformative growth and harmony. As a seasoned transformative and narrative mediator and co-parenting coordinator with more than a decade of expertise, I specialize in guiding individuals through the complex journey of ‘From Closure to Connection’. If you are facing challenges during your co-parenting journey and are looking for a professional ally to light the path to renewal and positive transformation, I am here to offer you my dedicated help. Let’s work together to ensure that your co-parenting relationship not only continues, but can flourish too. Contact me and let’s begin a new chapter of connection, growth and shared joy in co-parenting.

You’re invited to Tune Into Tara Mediation’s Co-parenting’s podcast

Embark on a transformative journey with Tara Mediation Co-parenting Edition! Join us as we unravel the complexities, offering insights that will empower you to navigate this unique journey with resilience and grace. Your co-parenting story is unique, and so are the strategies to make it thrive. Tune in now for a dose of wisdom, guidance, and a sprinkle of inspiration.

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Tara Mediation’s Co-parenting Edition brings you a new episode every Thursday. Available on Spotify and Apple Podcasts.

Sunita loves to write to help couples and their children navigate divorce with care

About Sunita Changoe
Sunita Changoe is the owner of Tara Mediation. Tara Mediation guides couple who are considering a divorce or separation, couples who have decided to divorce and already divorced individuals. For these individuals Tara Mediation provides the workshop ‘Claim your spot! – from partner to single’. More information www.taramediation.com

For more information about Tara Mediation, interview requests or images you can contact Sunita Changoe by phone: +31 (0)6 8100 6515 or e-mail: su.changoe@taramediation.com Also visit the website: www.taramediation.com

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Routine and Stability: The significance of routine and stability in a child’s life and how a structured co-parenting arrangement contributes to this.

“Just as consistency is key to success in the business world, it is paramount in providing stability for our children, anchoring them in a world of constant change.” – Sunita Changoe

For career-focused parents, juggling responsibilities is a daily challenge. Amidst the chaos, routine and stabilityemerge as pillars of strength, nurturing the well-being of our children.

Routine and Stability: Cornerstones of Childhood

In the ever-changing landscape of childhood, routine and stability offer solace and security. A structured co-parenting arrangement lays the groundwork for consistent schedules, rituals, and environments, providing children with a sense of predictability and safety. From bedtime routines to weekend activities, these anchors foster emotional resilience and promote healthy development.

The Role of Structure: Building a Foundation of Trust

Structure isn’t just about following rules; it’s about creating a nurturing environment where children can thrive. By establishing clear boundaries, expectations, and routines, a structured co-parenting arrangement fosters trust and confidence in children. They learn to rely on the consistency of their surroundings, empowering them to explore the world with curiosity and courage.

How has a structured co-parenting arrangement contributed to routine and stability in your child’s life? Share your experiences, tips, or favourite rituals below! Let’s all learn from each other’s strategies and celebrate the power of routine and stability in nurturing happy, healthy children.

Ready for your structured co-parenting

Experience co-parenting characterized by transformative growth and harmony. As a seasoned transformative and narrative mediator and co-parenting coordinator with more than a decade of expertise, I specialize in guiding individuals through the complex journey of ‘From Closure to Connection’. If you are facing challenges during your co-parenting journey and are looking for a professional ally to light the path to renewal and positive transformation, I am here to offer you my dedicated help. Let’s work together to ensure that your co-parenting relationship not only continues, but can flourish too. Contact me and let’s begin a new chapter of connection, growth and shared joy in co-parenting.

You’re invited to Tune Into Tara Mediation’s Co-parenting’s podcast

Embark on a transformative journey with Tara Mediation Co-parenting Edition! Join us as we unravel the complexities, offering insights that will empower you to navigate this unique journey with resilience and grace. Your co-parenting story is unique, and so are the strategies to make it thrive. Tune in now for a dose of wisdom, guidance, and a sprinkle of inspiration.

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Tara Mediation’s Co-parenting Edition brings you a new episode every Thursday. Available on Spotify and Apple Podcasts.

Sunita loves to write to help couples and their children navigate divorce with care

About Sunita Changoe
Sunita Changoe is the owner of Tara Mediation. Tara Mediation guides couple who are considering a divorce or separation, couples who have decided to divorce and already divorced individuals. For these individuals Tara Mediation provides the workshop ‘Claim your spot! – from partner to single’. More information www.taramediation.com

For more information about Tara Mediation, interview requests or images you can contact Sunita Changoe by phone: +31 (0)6 8100 6515 or e-mail: su.changoe@taramediation.com Also visit the website: www.taramediation.com

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Building resilience, fostering understanding, and nurturing positive cooperation are essential components of maintaining healthy co-parenting relationships.

The cornerstone of healthy co-parenting lies in the cultivation of resilience, understanding, and positive cooperation, ultimately benefiting the children involved.

Many co-parents, once deeply in love as partners, found themselves navigating the murky waters of co-parenting after their divorce. Amidst the emotional turbulence, they often realize the profound impact their relationship has on their children. At one moment they will understand that building resilience isn’t just about weathering storms but also about guiding their children through them. By embracing open communication and modelling resilience themselves, they can provide a sturdy foundation for their children’s emotional well-being.

Are you a co-parent and does it sound familiar and would you like to know how to do create a similar situation? You could start by championing an open dialogue with your children, assuring them of unwavering love and support despite changes in family dynamics. Lead by example, demonstrating coping mechanisms and problem-solving skills when faced with adversity. Stability becomes your beacon, as you maintain consistent routines across households, offering a sense of security amid transitions. And most importantly, create safe spaces for your children to express their emotions, validating their experiences and offering reassurance.

Our approach isn’t just about theory—it’s about tangible results. Through our co-parenting program, Tara Mediation equips individuals with the tools to navigate these challenges effectively. By fostering resilience, understanding, and positive cooperation, I’ll guide you to pave the way for a brighter future for both you parents and your children alike. Feel free to schedule a discovery call, just send me an e-mail.

Picture a home filled with laughter, even in the face of uncertainty. Imagine children who feel seen and heard, their emotions validated and their fears assuaged. That’s the power of resilience, understanding, and positive cooperation. It’s the assurance that despite life’s twists and turns, our children have a stable foundation to thrive upon.

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Join us on Tara Mediation’s Co-parenting Edition podcast, where we delve deeper into the transformative power of positive cooperative parenting. Learn how structured co-parenting plans can foster harmony and cooperation, ultimately shaping a better future for our children. Tune in to our podcast episode on Parental Cooperation: The Role of a Structured Co-Parenting Plan. Discover how a structured plan can foster positive cooperation between parents for the benefit of the child. Don’t miss out on valuable insights and strategies for successful co-parenting! Listen now!

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Sunita loves to write to help couples and their children navigate divorce with care

About Sunita Changoe
Sunita Changoe is the owner of Tara Mediation. Tara Mediation guides couple who are considering a divorce or separation, couples who have decided to divorce and already divorced individuals. For these individuals Tara Mediation provides the workshop ‘Claim your spot! – from partner to single’. More information www.taramediation.com

For more information about Tara Mediation, interview requests or images you can contact Sunita Changoe by phone: +31 (0)6 8100 6515 or e-mail: su.changoe@taramediation.com Also visit the website: www.taramediation.com

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BTS: How we craft our child’s weekly well-being in 3 steps!

I am often asked: how do you do it? I’d like to share it with you. Just know that if you don’t succeed right away, that’s completely okay. Co-parenting, like any parenting, is a process of trial and error, of bleeding and blossoming. So above all, be kind to yourself.

Step 1: Collaborate with Co-Parent

1. Schedule a Weekly Co-Parenting Meeting: Each week we set time aside to discuss and plan our child’s activities, school commitments, and any other important events. Sundays Evenings when our Sun is in bed we run through the coming scheduled week.
2. Utilize Shared Calendars or Apps: We use a shared digital family calendar on our devices to keep track of schedules, appointments, and shared responsibilities. We also created a whatsapp group for our family constellation. This way we are all reminded of the agreements we made and there will be no room for our Sun to try to negotiate something else when with another parent.
3. Prioritize Open Communication: We create time and a safe space for open dialogue where both parents can express concerns, share updates, and make decisions together for the benefit of our child. We can do that weekly and if it is an urgent matter, we can text each other about it.

Step 2: Plan Activities & Study Time

1. Balance Leisure and Educational Activities: We ensure our child has a healthy mix of recreational activities and structured learning time throughout the week. We keep it in balance by picking our strengths: his father takes care of most of the recreational activities and I take care of most the structured learning time throughout the week.
2. Incorporate Physical Exercise: We plan regular physical activities or outdoor play to promote physical health and reduce stress for all family members involved.
3. Establish Homework Routine: I set aside specific times for homework each day, providing a consistent and structured environment for academic success. Depending on the work-load, it varies from 20 minutes to 3 x 20 minutes throughout the week after our 4 pm snack or dinner. Always making sure we both have eaten something. With a Virgo rising mother and similar Sun, having eaten something is mandatory to have a stress free Homework Routine

Step 3: Maintain Consistency & Communication

1. Stick to Agreed-upon Schedules: Consistency in routines helps children feel secure and confident. So especially as a Virgo Rising mom I prefer to stick to agreed-upon schedules as much as possible. I do have to remind his dad every now and then. This step is like everything, it is always work in progress.
2. Adjust Flexibly When Needed: I am always open to adjusting plans as circumstances change and find it important to communicate these changes promptly with the co-parent and especially with our Sun. His dad being in construction often leads to him working during holidays and not having a plan B for the time our Sun is with him. Make sure to tackle this at least 3 weeks ahead of the holidays and create clarity for your child. Remember: flexibility also has its boundaries.
3. Foster a Unified Front: We do our best to present a united front to our Sun, even if we have differences with each other. Consistency in rules and expectations helps create stability and security for your child.

Which one of these steps have you already applied successfully and which one is still a challenge for you?

Ready for your structured co-parenting

Experience co-parenting characterized by transformative growth and harmony. As a seasoned transformative and narrative mediator and co-parenting coordinator with more than a decade of expertise, I specialize in guiding individuals through the complex journey of ‘From Closure to Connection’. If you are facing challenges during your co-parenting journey and are looking for a professional ally to light the path to renewal and positive transformation, I am here to offer you my dedicated help. Let’s work together to ensure that your co-parenting relationship not only continues, but can flourish too. Contact me and let’s begin a new chapter of connection, growth and shared joy in co-parenting.

You’re invited to Tune Into Tara Mediation’s Co-parenting’s podcast

Embark on a transformative journey with Tara Mediation Co-parenting Edition! Join us as we unravel the complexities, offering insights that will empower you to navigate this unique journey with resilience and grace. Your co-parenting story is unique, and so are the strategies to make it thrive. Tune in now for a dose of wisdom, guidance, and a sprinkle of inspiration.

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Tara Mediation’s Co-parenting Edition brings you a new episode every Thursday. Available on Spotify and Apple Podcasts.

Sunita loves to write to help couples and their children navigate divorce with care

About Sunita Changoe
Sunita Changoe is the owner of Tara Mediation. Tara Mediation guides couple who are considering a divorce or separation, couples who have decided to divorce and already divorced individuals. For these individuals Tara Mediation provides the workshop ‘Claim your spot! – from partner to single’. More information www.taramediation.com

For more information about Tara Mediation, interview requests or images you can contact Sunita Changoe by phone: +31 (0)6 8100 6515 or e-mail: su.changoe@taramediation.com Also visit the website: www.taramediation.com

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How to Create Fun and Memorable Summer Experiences with Your Children: Co-Parenting Edition

Co-Parenting After Divorce During Summer Holidays

The summer season is a time for children to explore, learn, and make cherished memories with their loved ones. For divorced parents, co-parenting during the summer holidays presents an opportunity to come together and ensure their children have an enriching and joyous experience. While navigating co-parenting may have its challenges, the shared goal of creating fun and memorable summer experiences can strengthen the bond between parents and children alike.

Challenges of Co-Parenting During Summer

Coordinating summer plans as co-parents can present certain challenges, such as conflicting schedules and different parenting styles. Finding a balance that suits both parents and, most importantly, prioritizes the well-being of the children requires open communication and flexibility.

One common hurdle is coordinating vacations and activities during the summer. Ensuring that both parents have quality time with their children while avoiding overlaps or cancellations can be daunting. Additionally, adjusting to the transitions between households during summer vacations might be challenging for the children, as they adapt to different rules and routines.

10 Tips and Tricks for Co-Parenting During Summer

Tip 1: Plan Together as Co-Parents
Start the summer on the right foot by collaborating with your co-parent to create a shared summer schedule and activities plan. Discuss important events, vacations, and opportunities for quality time with the children.

Tip 2: Be Flexible and Open-Minded
Embrace flexibility in your co-parenting arrangement to accommodate each other’s schedules and your children’s preferences. Being open-minded allows for spontaneous adventures and makes the summer experience more enjoyable for everyone.

Tip 3: Communication is Key
Maintain open and transparent communication with your co-parent throughout the summer. Keep each other informed about changes in plans, daily activities, and any challenges that may arise.

Tip 4: Emphasize Consistency and Stability
Strive to maintain consistency and stability in your children’s routines, even when transitioning between households. Establishing a sense of stability during summer break can help your kids feel secure and at ease. Tip 5: Include Both Parents in Special Occasions
Whenever possible, include both parents in special summer events or vacations. This will create meaningful memories for your children and demonstrate a united front in co-parenting.

Tip 5: Include Both Parents in Special Occasions
Whenever possible, include both parents in special summer events or vacations. This will create meaningful memories for your children and demonstrate a united front in co-parenting.

10 tips on How to Create Fun and Memorable Summer Experiences with Your Children: Co-Parenting Edition

Tip 6: Make Room for Individual Time
While planning joint activities is important, also allocate individual time with your children. Let them spend one-on-one time with each co-parent to strengthen their bond and create unique memories.

Tip 7: Embrace Outdoor Adventures
Take advantage of the warm weather and longer days by planning outdoor adventures with your children. Whether it’s a trip to the beach, hiking in nature, or a family picnic, these activities can create lasting memories.

Tip 8: Incorporate Educational and Creative Activities
Encourage your children’s curiosity and creativity by incorporating educational and creative activities into their summer experience. Visit museums, attend workshops, or engage in arts and crafts projects together.

Tip 9: Document the Fun
Capture the summer memories by taking photos and videos of the activities you do with your children. These visual mementos can become cherished keepsakes that your family can look back on for years to come.

Tip 10: Foster a Positive Co-Parenting Atmosphere
Focus on creating a positive co-parenting atmosphere throughout the summer. Show respect and support for each other’s roles, and avoid any negative discussions or conflicts in front of the children.

By following these tips and tricks, you can ensure a fun and memorable summer experience for your children while co-parenting with care and cooperation.

Co-parenting during the summer holidays is an opportunity to put aside differences and prioritize the happiness and well-being of your children. By communicating effectively, planning together, and embracing flexibility, you can create fun and memorable summer experiences that your children will treasure forever. Remember that a positive co-parenting atmosphere fosters a nurturing environment for your children to thrive during this special time of the year. Together, as co-parents, you have the power to make this summer one filled with love, laughter, and cherished memories for your family.

As co-parents, take a moment to reflect on your shared goals for this summer. What fun and memorable experiences do you want to create for your children during this special time? Discuss your individual ideas and find common ground to plan activities that will bring joy and enrichment to your children’s summer vacation. Remember, effective communication and cooperation will be key in ensuring a fulfilling and nurturing summer experience for your family.

Enjoy the season and the precious moments spent with your children!

About Sunita Changoe
Sunita Changoe is the owner of Tara Mediation. Tara Mediation guides couple who are considering a divorce or separation, couples who have decided to divorce and already divorced individuals. For these individuals Tara Mediation provides the workshop ‘Claim your spot! – from partner to single’. More information www.taramediation.com

For more information about Tara Mediation, interview requests or images you can contact Sunita Changoe by phone: +31 (0)6 8100 6515 or e-mail: su.changoe@taramediation.com Also visit the website: www.taramediation.com

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Children first – follow up

After the publication of the article Children first many reactions through my website showed that there is still a serious need for the attention towards a child dealing or having dealt with a divorce or separation.

On the same day that the Dutch foundation ‘Young heroes’ brought the importance of support and guidance of children and youngsters after the event of death of a family member or a divorce/separation to the attention on the worldwide web with their websites ‘parents of young heroes’ and ‘for young heroes’ (both only in Dutch), there was also sad news about a 12 year old boy in Belgium who had committed suicide because of his parents’ divorce.

With her campaign ‘What you say in a divorce can mark a child forever’ SIRE, the Dutch foundation for idealistic commercials answered this call: paying more attention to these children.

A divorce brings a lot of hassle. Reality shows that a good financial settlement is priority number one.

From my point of view people first need to be able again to communicate with each other, whether or not with mediation. A good communication is a requirement for a good completion of the divorce in every respect, especially when children are involved.

When parents divorce a good reciprocal communication contributes enormously to the child dealing with and accepting the divorce. Possible harmful effects of the divorce on the child’s future life can me limited this way.

A good communication between the separated parents can prevent fights in the presence of the child, can create conditions to provide the child clarity and the child can count on the love and support of both parents. Advice that SIRE campaign also shares.

Just like bringing in experts for the financial settlement of the divorce, there is also a possibility to bring in the help of an expert for the guidance of the parent and their child in divorce.

Not only what is said during a divorce but especially what is done as a divorced parent can mark the child.

Yesterday I had a dinner with my partner in a small Italian restaurant in Amstelveen. Next to us was a couple with their child. They did not talk that much to each other, but we heard the constant beep of a Blackberry. For a moment I thought it was the teen keeping her peers posted about the dinner with her parents. However, it was her mother. ‘Mum can I have a subscription?’ Her mother shook her head, while she was pinging. Desert was served; mum took a bite and was preparing to leave. ‘Mum, mum, please stay …’ Mum seemed to want nothing but to leave for her appointment and she drives away. Shortly afterwards, the girl leaves with her father. That look on the little girl’s face I will never forget. She enjoyed being together with both her parents.

A child that can spend time with his or her separated parents wants – understandably – nothing else but being together with her parents and their full attention. Is it that hard to switch of completely or just the sound of your phone or Blackberry?

This article has been written for and published in Dutch on the Dutch online newspaper Dichtbij.nl on April 29, 2011

About Su Changoe
Su Changoe is the owner of Tara Mediation. Tara Mediation guides couple who are considering a divorce or separation, couples who have decided to divorce and already divorced individual. For these individuals Tara Mediation provides the workshop ‘Claim your spot! – from partner to single’. More information www.taramediation.com

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